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Sunday, 1 December 2013

ASK TON: Help! I Always Attract Men That Want Just Séx


From A TON Reader
I don't dress provocatively. As a matter of fact I can't stand éxposing the body in a provocativé manner. Is there something else that attracts such guys. I'm considering stepping out of my relationship of 3 weeks cos the guy is mounting serious pressure on me.
And this is a guy I met in church, we attend the same church. If I'd met him in a club would have understood, not that I club self.

How Cheap Alcohol Takes Over Motor Parks in Lagos


Salami Olapade is totally inebriated by the time he completes his first round trip of the day, conveying passengers in his rickety 14-seater bus along the Oshodi-Mile Two route.
Before starting his morning run, Mr. Olapade buys five sachets of schnapps which, according to him, helps keep him awake when he gets stuck in traffic, a sure thing during the early morning rush hour along the route.
“I drink a sachet once in a while to keep awake, especially in the morning, because I work late hours. By the time I finish the five sachets, the sleep will completely disappear from my eyes and I can concentrate very well,” the driver said in Pidgin English.
At the Ojuelegba Park, Chikelue Anioma gives a slightly different reason for the amount of alcohol he takes while at the steering.
“I usually take two shots of ‘mgborogu’ (local herbs steeped in gin) before I start my first trip of the day but it does not affect my driving,” he said in Pidgin English.
With the proliferation of small sachets, and miniature bottles, of different brands of alcoholic drinks in most of the motor parks in Lagos, the city’s commercial bus drivers, notorious for their short tempers and uncivilised behaviour, have an extra reason to be unruly. Most motor parks in the Lagos metropolis are popular haunts for hawkers of these drinks thus contributing to the increase of cases of drunk driving and road rage by commercial motorists.
The growing popularity of traditional medicine, and the use of herbs, has also contributed to this trend since most of these herbs are usually steeped in local gin.
The sellers are drawn to the motor parks because the commercial motor and motorcycle drivers constitute the greater part of their clientele. Most of them admitted that business was good.
“My elder sister urged me into this business and I’m happy I followed her advise because this is definitely more lucrative than the tomatoes I was selling before,” said a trader at the Ojuelegba Park.
She added that she makes an average of N3,000 in profit on a good day by offering various brands of both sachet and bottled alcoholic drinks.
A survey at the Oshodi area revealed that sellers of the herbal drugs, steeped in alcohol, attend to a steady stream of customers made up of commercial motorists and touts.
Below is the reference information on various stages of alcohol intoxication.
0.01…0.05 BAC (g/100 ml of blood or g/210 l of breath). Sublinical stage: behaviour nearly normal by ordinary observation
0.03…0.12. Stage of euphoria: mild euphoria, sociability, talkativeness. Increased self-confidence; decreased inhibitions. Diminution of attention, judgment and control. Beginning of sensory-motor impairment. Loss of efficiency in finer performance tests
0.09…0.25. Stage of excitement: emotional instability; loss of critical judgment. Impairment of perception, memory and comprehension. Decreased sensitory response; increased reaction time. Reduced visual acuity; peripheral vision and glare recovery. Sensory-motor in coordination; impaired balance. Drowsiness
0.18…0.30. Stage of confusion: disorientation, mental confusion; dizziness. Exaggerated emotional states. Disturbances of vision and of perception of colour, form, motion and dimensions. Increased pain threshold. Increased muscular in coordination; staggering gait; slurred speech. Apathy, lethargy.
0.25…0.40. Stage of stupor: general inertia; approaching loss of motor functions. Markedly decreased response to stimuli. Marked muscular in coordination; inability to stand or walk. Vomiting; incontinence. Impaired consciousness; sleep or stupor.
0.35…0.50. Coma: complete unconsciousness. Depressed or abolished reflexes. Subnormal body temperature. Incontinence. Impairment of circulation and respiration. Possible death.
0.45 +. Death: possible death from respiratory arrest.

Anambra Poll Results: APGA Thanks Jonathan. Obiano Is Grateful to Governor Ob


The All Progressive Grand Alliance (APGA) thanked President Goodluck Jonathan for the ‘credible’ election state and assured him of their support for 2015, while Governor-elect of Anambra state, Willie Obiano, has ascribed his victory in the just-concluded elections to the hard work of Gov. Peter Obi.
The governor-elect said this while reacting to his victory, which was announced by the Independent Electoral Commission (INEC) in Awka on December 1, 2013, Sunday.
“Governor Obi’s good work actually led us to victory and I must commend him for his exemplary show of support,” Willie Obiano said.
He further commended the people of the state, the Chairman of the party, Victor Umeh, other party stalwarts and the security agencies for their commitment to their duties during the conduct of the election.
“I am assuring the people of Anambra that I will continue with the great strides of Obi in moving the state forward,” Obiano pledged.
The outgoing Gov. Obi expressed gratitude to President Jonathan for remaining committed to democracy, fair play, free and credible election in the state.
“For us in APGA, we have every reason to show appreciation to President Jonathan because this is the second time after 2010 that he is ensuring credible polls.
“He is our presidential candidate and we will continue to give him support,” Mr. Obi said.
The declaration of Mr. Obiano as winner of the polls followed the completion of the supplementary election in the state on Saturday in areas where election did not hold on November 16.
The APC, Labour Party, and the candidate of the PDP, boycotted the supplementary election and demanded a total cancellation of the November 16 election, citing disenfranchisement of voters and late delivery of electoral materials, among others.
The PDP headquarters, however, said the November 16 election was free and fair; which led to the APC accusing the ruling party of abandoning its candidate and working for APGA in the election.

Jonathan vs Amaechi: Suspension of 5 Bishops in Niger Delta Confirmed


Five Pentecostal bishops have been banned from officiating in any bishopric gathering in the Niger Delta.
A terse statement, issued on November 30, 2013, by Pentecostal Bishops in the Niger Delta and signed by the acting National Secretary of the organisation, Bishop David Benedict, said the unnamed bishops committed a sacrilegious act when, in company of seven other clerics from the region, indulged in alleged disgraceful act “without minding their highly exalted position in Christendom”.
While commending the National President of Christian Association of Nigeria, Pastor Ayo Oritsejafor, and the South-south Chairman, Arch-Bishop God-Dowell Avwormakpa, for suspending the bishops, he lauded the CAN President for his effort to religious body in the country.
The group called for peace between Governor Chibuike Amaechi and President Goodluck Jonathan.

PHOTOS: Bisoye Obasanjo's White Wedding in Ogun


One of the sons of the former President Olusegun Obasanjo, Bisoye Obasanjo, had his white wedding with Chigozie Nwenyi in Ogun State on November 30, 2013, Saturday.
Previously, the couple had their traditional wedding in Ebonyi state, the home place of the bride, on October 10, 2013.
Several pictures from the event leaked the web. Unfortunately, their quality is not so good, as these are the photos from a mobile phone, belonging to one of the guests.
See the photographs below: